"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thunder_god said:
http://www.cosmopolitan.co.za/Relationships/LovenRelationships/make-him-fall-hard-pg2

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/g1995/how-to-make-your-ex-jealous/

http://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/community/forums/thread/1378943?page=1

Its no wonder we get all confused and ****ed up. This is good intel though and I wonder if it would have the same effects on females?
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It probably would work. But they may realize what your trying to do (play games) and will do the same to you.

But doing these things show you care a lot, and is a form of emotional investment.

Its better to drop off the face of the earth asap. 2 reasons.

1. your not reinforcing that you care with behavior, or focusing on her. Fake it till you make it (if you have to).

2. you can't lose if she is trying to play games and you just walk away. That will piss a girl off way more.
 
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noobolgy said:
It probably would work. But they may realize what your trying to do (play games) and will do the same to you.

But doing these things show you care a lot, and is a form of emotional investment.

Its better to drop off the face of the earth asap. 2 reasons.

1. your not reinforcing that you care with behavior, or focusing on her. Fake it till you make it (if you have to).

2. you can't lose if she is trying to play games and you just walk away. That will piss a girl off way more.
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What about if you realize she is trying to make you jealous and then you go and flirt with another girl in retaliation. What do you think would happen?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thunder_god said:
What about if you realize she is trying to make you jealous and then you go and flirt with another girl in retaliation. What do you think would happen?
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Then she might get jealous, or laugh at your futile attempt. Or not care.
 
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