I got a question here maybe is an AFC question but what is the longest waiting time period before you guys hook up with a grl that you like. Days, weeks, months? Before answering just think of all the circumstances around maybe she lives far, she' is very shy, everything you can think of. Thanks
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Longest time period
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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define hook up. I'm getting tired of people using that phrase
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After the first date, if not on the first date itself. You basically assume she's your girlfriend and treat her like your girlfriend. Yes, with the touching (Kino) and everything. (Maybe not kissing so early on though) If she's not interested, she'll let you know just then, and you can next her. Which saves you the trouble of trying for a long time, going through one-itis, and maybe falling into the friendzone in hopes of her getting attracted to you. What you do instead, is from the first date itself, treat her like your girlfriend. As the dates go by, from first date to second date to third to fourth and so on, gradually increase the touching, until it leads to a kiss. You'll know when it's time for the kiss. You'll feel it. When you do, just remember to do it, and not overthink it, or you'll pass up the perfect chance. Always think with your other head, if you know what I mean. 
Good luck, champ!
Good luck, champ!"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.