I got a question here maybe is an AFC question but what is the longest waiting time period before you guys hook up with a grl that you like. Days, weeks, months? Before answering just think of all the circumstances around maybe she lives far, she' is very shy, everything you can think of. Thanks
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Longest time period
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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define hook up. I'm getting tired of people using that phrase
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After the first date, if not on the first date itself. You basically assume she's your girlfriend and treat her like your girlfriend. Yes, with the touching (Kino) and everything. (Maybe not kissing so early on though) If she's not interested, she'll let you know just then, and you can next her. Which saves you the trouble of trying for a long time, going through one-itis, and maybe falling into the friendzone in hopes of her getting attracted to you. What you do instead, is from the first date itself, treat her like your girlfriend. As the dates go by, from first date to second date to third to fourth and so on, gradually increase the touching, until it leads to a kiss. You'll know when it's time for the kiss. You'll feel it. When you do, just remember to do it, and not overthink it, or you'll pass up the perfect chance. Always think with your other head, if you know what I mean. 
Good luck, champ!
Good luck, champ!"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.