I got a question here maybe is an AFC question but what is the longest waiting time period before you guys hook up with a grl that you like. Days, weeks, months? Before answering just think of all the circumstances around maybe she lives far, she' is very shy, everything you can think of. Thanks
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Longest time period
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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define hook up. I'm getting tired of people using that phrase
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After the first date, if not on the first date itself. You basically assume she's your girlfriend and treat her like your girlfriend. Yes, with the touching (Kino) and everything. (Maybe not kissing so early on though) If she's not interested, she'll let you know just then, and you can next her. Which saves you the trouble of trying for a long time, going through one-itis, and maybe falling into the friendzone in hopes of her getting attracted to you. What you do instead, is from the first date itself, treat her like your girlfriend. As the dates go by, from first date to second date to third to fourth and so on, gradually increase the touching, until it leads to a kiss. You'll know when it's time for the kiss. You'll feel it. When you do, just remember to do it, and not overthink it, or you'll pass up the perfect chance. Always think with your other head, if you know what I mean. 
Good luck, champ!
Good luck, champ!"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.