"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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long term or short term relationships better.

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i've been in a ltr for quite a while now and i'm getting bored, about ready to end it. i'm having a hard time seeing the pro's and con's of a ltr.

convince me that long term relationships are better than short term relationships or vice versa.

thanks to those who reply.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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personal preferences. flings just annoy me, I prefer the LTR. Flings have 10x more drama than LTRs.
 
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I prefer to stay in relationships as long as I feel like staying in them. If I'm getting bored, I let her know and either it gets exciting again or I break it off. If I'm having a good time though, I'll stick with it.
 
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Originally posted by assassin
i've been in a ltr for quite a while now and i'm getting bored, about ready to end it. i'm having a hard time seeing the pro's and con's of a ltr.

convince me that long term relationships are better than short term relationships or vice versa.

thanks to those who reply.
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It's all a matter of personal preference, but if you're ready to end it now - END IT NOW. Don't stretch it out and beat a dead horse.

It is really fun to get back into the singles field after being in a LTR for a while. Be confident in your abilities and hit on those women!

I love variety and being single right now suits me just fine, after being in an LTR for 1.5 years.
 
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