"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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long term or short term relationships better.

assassin

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i've been in a ltr for quite a while now and i'm getting bored, about ready to end it. i'm having a hard time seeing the pro's and con's of a ltr.

convince me that long term relationships are better than short term relationships or vice versa.

thanks to those who reply.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

xomel

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personal preferences. flings just annoy me, I prefer the LTR. Flings have 10x more drama than LTRs.
 

NYC Dude

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I prefer to stay in relationships as long as I feel like staying in them. If I'm getting bored, I let her know and either it gets exciting again or I break it off. If I'm having a good time though, I'll stick with it.
 

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Originally posted by assassin
i've been in a ltr for quite a while now and i'm getting bored, about ready to end it. i'm having a hard time seeing the pro's and con's of a ltr.

convince me that long term relationships are better than short term relationships or vice versa.

thanks to those who reply.
It's all a matter of personal preference, but if you're ready to end it now - END IT NOW. Don't stretch it out and beat a dead horse.

It is really fun to get back into the singles field after being in a LTR for a while. Be confident in your abilities and hit on those women!

I love variety and being single right now suits me just fine, after being in an LTR for 1.5 years.
 
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