Okay, so maybe I should have figured out how to do this by now but I didn't so I need some advice. I like this woman who is a long time family friend, and I have noticed that sometimes when we meet there is a sexual vibe (flirting/touching). Actually the sexual vibes are pretty rare. Other times there is absolutely no sexual vibe. So how do I get her to at least be willing to get sexual with me on one of those days when she isn't feeling sexual towards me. We don't meet very often and the times there are no sexual vibes happen way more often than the sexual vibes. So how do I get around this? I don't want to do anything stupid and ruin the friendship. I don't want a long term relationship or anything I just want to sleep with her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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