"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrquest

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Okay, so maybe I should have figured out how to do this by now but I didn't so I need some advice. I like this woman who is a long time family friend, and I have noticed that sometimes when we meet there is a sexual vibe (flirting/touching). Actually the sexual vibes are pretty rare. Other times there is absolutely no sexual vibe. So how do I get her to at least be willing to get sexual with me on one of those days when she isn't feeling sexual towards me. We don't meet very often and the times there are no sexual vibes happen way more often than the sexual vibes. So how do I get around this? I don't want to do anything stupid and ruin the friendship. I don't want a long term relationship or anything I just want to sleep with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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An occasional sexual vibe is meaningless. I get an occasional sexual vibe with ever woman I know, even FUGs. It's part of the male/female dynamic. Real sexual tension is another story.

Also, trying to fvck her should not put the friendship at risk - sleeping with her will risk the friendship. Not all friendships survive sex.
 
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