Okay, so maybe I should have figured out how to do this by now but I didn't so I need some advice. I like this woman who is a long time family friend, and I have noticed that sometimes when we meet there is a sexual vibe (flirting/touching). Actually the sexual vibes are pretty rare. Other times there is absolutely no sexual vibe. So how do I get her to at least be willing to get sexual with me on one of those days when she isn't feeling sexual towards me. We don't meet very often and the times there are no sexual vibes happen way more often than the sexual vibes. So how do I get around this? I don't want to do anything stupid and ruin the friendship. I don't want a long term relationship or anything I just want to sleep with her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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