Okay, so maybe I should have figured out how to do this by now but I didn't so I need some advice. I like this woman who is a long time family friend, and I have noticed that sometimes when we meet there is a sexual vibe (flirting/touching). Actually the sexual vibes are pretty rare. Other times there is absolutely no sexual vibe. So how do I get her to at least be willing to get sexual with me on one of those days when she isn't feeling sexual towards me. We don't meet very often and the times there are no sexual vibes happen way more often than the sexual vibes. So how do I get around this? I don't want to do anything stupid and ruin the friendship. I don't want a long term relationship or anything I just want to sleep with her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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