"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Long story short - Is it worth having a POF account?
- Thread starter For_F
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
:cheer: I think my ego gets to me more than anything. I'd love some opinions on it, too.
Get one.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
she the preppy type of girl, who has perfect English, been living abroad for 7 years and has a degree. i can't compete with that. i need someone close to my level of " class"
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SpazzAttackk
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spiegel549
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If you are looking for the girl of your dreams, POF is not the answer lol.
Honestly you should use it for entertainment purposes, and practice talking with women, working your "texting game" or w.e. other then that. Go meet women in person. It is much more promising.
99.9% of the women on that site are on there for a reason..DAMAGED GOODS!
TillTheEndOfTime
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Do you want anything resembling a somewhat meaningful relationship? Then no.
Are you after just casual sex? Then it might be worth it for you.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Anyone I know who had reasonable success with it treated it like a PART TIME JOB. lolspiegel549 said:
It is an uphill battle if you're not extremely attractive.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
incognito42
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For_F said:
It's up to you dude. For me I was a decent looking guy not getting much ass and lacking some confidence and in my own head too much. Pof made it easy to break outta a lot of my problems by giving me a "safe" way to experiment with talking to a lot of chicks. Much easier to get rejected online, especially when there's an enormous supply of chicks to move onto if one rejected me.
Now I'm never going to hit a dry spell without sex again. I have and can get many options to get laid right away basically on speed dial. I'm Able to get a lot of chicks in real life who were outta reach for me before I gained the confidence and became a more complete person.
More than anything pof is a place where you can get a handful of numbers of lonely and horny chicks without consuming a fraction of the time and effort it rakes in real life. However, you have to understand these are low class chicks only good for one night stands and fwb situations. If you want a quality chik you need to meet those in the real world
incognito42
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I've had ZERO experience with chicks lookingfor free meals, free rides, someone to raise their kids, etc. There are a select few just looking for entertainment. The vast VAST majority are looking to get laid
It's also consumed VERY little time until the point that I was getting more number than I could keep up with. texting 5-10 chicks at a time and at that Poinr it was consuming a lot of time. But the amount of time and effort it takes to get the chicks number is very minimal. I mean, how hard is it to copy/paste a message to 20-30 chicks? After that it's a matter of asking how the sites treating them and then asking for the number. After awhile you go on auto pilot. Very little effort and time is used
Thata just from my experience