Freewheelin Frank
Banned
Does anyone here besides me have long hair?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Long hair
- Thread starter Freewheelin Frank
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
How long is long?
Shoulder, long or surfer style long?
Shoulder, long or surfer style long?
Freewheelin Frank
Banned
Anything beyond just "shaggy", whether it goes to your shoulders or longer.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
I used to, but I had a rough schedule so I had to chop it off. Bed head and hat head were not my friends
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
I'd never grow my hair out that long. I had my hair grown out to a "shaggy" length and even that was a pain in the ass to manage.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
shydude
Master Don Juan
I have short hair!!! I think really long hair is not good looking, IDK its just what I think, Its cool when hair is little long, till like your shoulders.
Freewheelin Frank
Banned
I hear ya. A lot of women in my generation seem to find long hair un-sexy. which is the opposite of the previous generations, which seemed to prefer it, as well as beards where as now young women don't like those either.shydude said:
But I don't care. If you are in good shape(which I will be) and you have game, the hair isn't really going to bother them. Besides, there are still enough chics who do dig it.
Besides.. its my mojo man.