"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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flippinfreak

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How long is long?

Shoulder, long or surfer style long?
 
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Anything beyond just "shaggy", whether it goes to your shoulders or longer.
 

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I used to, but I had a rough schedule so I had to chop it off. Bed head and hat head were not my friends:p
 

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I'd never grow my hair out that long. I had my hair grown out to a "shaggy" length and even that was a pain in the ass to manage.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have short hair!!! I think really long hair is not good looking, IDK its just what I think, Its cool when hair is little long, till like your shoulders.
 
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shydude said:
I have short hair!!! I think really long hair is not good looking, IDK its just what I think, Its cool when hair is little long, till like your shoulders.
I hear ya. A lot of women in my generation seem to find long hair un-sexy. which is the opposite of the previous generations, which seemed to prefer it, as well as beards where as now young women don't like those either.

But I don't care. If you are in good shape(which I will be) and you have game, the hair isn't really going to bother them. Besides, there are still enough chics who do dig it.

Besides.. its my mojo man.
 
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