Freewheelin Frank
Banned
Does anyone here besides me have long hair?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Long hair
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
How long is long?
Shoulder, long or surfer style long?
Shoulder, long or surfer style long?
Freewheelin Frank
Banned
Anything beyond just "shaggy", whether it goes to your shoulders or longer.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
I used to, but I had a rough schedule so I had to chop it off. Bed head and hat head were not my friends
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
I'd never grow my hair out that long. I had my hair grown out to a "shaggy" length and even that was a pain in the ass to manage.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
Master Don Juan
I have short hair!!! I think really long hair is not good looking, IDK its just what I think, Its cool when hair is little long, till like your shoulders.
Freewheelin Frank
Banned
I hear ya. A lot of women in my generation seem to find long hair un-sexy. which is the opposite of the previous generations, which seemed to prefer it, as well as beards where as now young women don't like those either.shydude said:
But I don't care. If you are in good shape(which I will be) and you have game, the hair isn't really going to bother them. Besides, there are still enough chics who do dig it.
Besides.. its my mojo man.