Freewheelin Frank
Banned
Does anyone here besides me have long hair?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Long hair
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
How long is long?
Shoulder, long or surfer style long?
Shoulder, long or surfer style long?
Freewheelin Frank
Banned
Anything beyond just "shaggy", whether it goes to your shoulders or longer.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
I used to, but I had a rough schedule so I had to chop it off. Bed head and hat head were not my friends
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
I'd never grow my hair out that long. I had my hair grown out to a "shaggy" length and even that was a pain in the ass to manage.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
Master Don Juan
I have short hair!!! I think really long hair is not good looking, IDK its just what I think, Its cool when hair is little long, till like your shoulders.
Freewheelin Frank
Banned
I hear ya. A lot of women in my generation seem to find long hair un-sexy. which is the opposite of the previous generations, which seemed to prefer it, as well as beards where as now young women don't like those either.shydude said:
But I don't care. If you are in good shape(which I will be) and you have game, the hair isn't really going to bother them. Besides, there are still enough chics who do dig it.
Besides.. its my mojo man.