"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Long hair? Short hair?

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Allright. Took a while, but here's a few pics.

In addition to above, here's a few more . . .



http://www.geocities.com/softheart82/index.html

You also get the pleasure of seeing me gettin' ready for a classical concert with my clarinet. Lucky, lucky you!

Alexi

PS - I change hairstyles often. I get bored. I'm gonna give highlights a go this summer with slightly longer hair.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alexi, imagine talking about this to your headmaster or your DSM/CSM @ Military school...DIDNT YOU LEARN ANYTHING!!

Youre not hardcore unless you live hardcore

BTW, you werent one of the band fairies on drill? Please tell me you werent.
 

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Alexi, imagine talking about this to your headmaster or your DSM/CSM @ Military school...DIDNT YOU LEARN ANYTHING!!

Youre not hardcore unless you live hardcore

BTW, you werent one of the band fairies on drill? Please tell me you werent.
lol. I think I'd be more scared of talking about my clarinet playing to upperclassmen than anyone else.

And no I wasn't on drill. During military school I was actually on the saber drill team (similar to the rifle drill team, except we flipped around and threw each other swords, not rifles). VERY cool.

And as to the comment of hardcore, here's my basic training pic.

 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Long hair makes me look 5 years younger so I keep it short. I won't attempt long hair again until I can grow some serious facial hair.
Bull****. Ive always been told i look much older with long hair. Ive been told i look "5 years YOUNGER" with short hair...
 
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