"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Long hair? Short hair?

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Allright. Took a while, but here's a few pics.

In addition to above, here's a few more . . .



http://www.geocities.com/softheart82/index.html

You also get the pleasure of seeing me gettin' ready for a classical concert with my clarinet. Lucky, lucky you!

Alexi

PS - I change hairstyles often. I get bored. I'm gonna give highlights a go this summer with slightly longer hair.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alexi, imagine talking about this to your headmaster or your DSM/CSM @ Military school...DIDNT YOU LEARN ANYTHING!!

Youre not hardcore unless you live hardcore

BTW, you werent one of the band fairies on drill? Please tell me you werent.
 

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Alexi, imagine talking about this to your headmaster or your DSM/CSM @ Military school...DIDNT YOU LEARN ANYTHING!!

Youre not hardcore unless you live hardcore

BTW, you werent one of the band fairies on drill? Please tell me you werent.
lol. I think I'd be more scared of talking about my clarinet playing to upperclassmen than anyone else.

And no I wasn't on drill. During military school I was actually on the saber drill team (similar to the rifle drill team, except we flipped around and threw each other swords, not rifles). VERY cool.

And as to the comment of hardcore, here's my basic training pic.

 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Long hair makes me look 5 years younger so I keep it short. I won't attempt long hair again until I can grow some serious facial hair.
Bull****. Ive always been told i look much older with long hair. Ive been told i look "5 years YOUNGER" with short hair...
 
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