"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Long hair? Short hair?

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Allright. Took a while, but here's a few pics.

In addition to above, here's a few more . . .



http://www.geocities.com/softheart82/index.html

You also get the pleasure of seeing me gettin' ready for a classical concert with my clarinet. Lucky, lucky you!

Alexi

PS - I change hairstyles often. I get bored. I'm gonna give highlights a go this summer with slightly longer hair.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alexi, imagine talking about this to your headmaster or your DSM/CSM @ Military school...DIDNT YOU LEARN ANYTHING!!

Youre not hardcore unless you live hardcore

BTW, you werent one of the band fairies on drill? Please tell me you werent.
 

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Alexi, imagine talking about this to your headmaster or your DSM/CSM @ Military school...DIDNT YOU LEARN ANYTHING!!

Youre not hardcore unless you live hardcore

BTW, you werent one of the band fairies on drill? Please tell me you werent.
lol. I think I'd be more scared of talking about my clarinet playing to upperclassmen than anyone else.

And no I wasn't on drill. During military school I was actually on the saber drill team (similar to the rifle drill team, except we flipped around and threw each other swords, not rifles). VERY cool.

And as to the comment of hardcore, here's my basic training pic.

 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Long hair makes me look 5 years younger so I keep it short. I won't attempt long hair again until I can grow some serious facial hair.
Bull****. Ive always been told i look much older with long hair. Ive been told i look "5 years YOUNGER" with short hair...
 
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