"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Long distant plate
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
noBSgames
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Could be a cost of living thing could be a few things I would have to make a judgement in person
noBSgames
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noBSgames
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What a welcome change from my BPD ex at least this one did not flat out kiss me on the lips within mins of meeting me.. this one seems to be looking down the road long term which is not a problem for me.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DEEZEDBRAH
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You got get more babes brah. Da **** is long distance plate spinning? The only spinning she be doing is on some other dude's cawk and his proteins spinning in her anal and digestive tract.
Step game up in 2018 son. This is pathetic.
noBSgames
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At least she hasn’t gone nuts like my ex biting and ****. It was just getting to know one another
marmel75
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So let me get this straight...the first date is at her house, she let's you spend the night and you didn't bang her? C'mon man...this is an epic fail.
Women don't often give you another opportunity to handle your business when they make it so easy for you to begin with.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
noBSgames
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I’m not sure how this is a epic fail perhaps this site is nothing but a hit it and quit it site but it’s not like it’s going to be the last time
marmel75
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No its called escalating. I wouldnt count on there being another chance. Dont always get another chance when you get a green light to bang a chick and you don't...that's an attraction killer many times...
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marmel75
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Why would you agree to be exclusive? Having sex with a woman should not be all it takes for a man to agree to exclusivity. A wild stallion does not willingly run into a cage, slam the door shut and hand her the key.
If you agreed to this, its a major mistake, IMO
noBSgames
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
marmel75
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Dude you've been on two dates. Exclusivity should take months for a women to earn if at all. Giving yourself away this freely tells her you have very little value.