"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Long distant plate
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
noBSgames
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Could be a cost of living thing could be a few things I would have to make a judgement in person
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What a welcome change from my BPD ex at least this one did not flat out kiss me on the lips within mins of meeting me.. this one seems to be looking down the road long term which is not a problem for me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DEEZEDBRAH
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You got get more babes brah. Da **** is long distance plate spinning? The only spinning she be doing is on some other dude's cawk and his proteins spinning in her anal and digestive tract.
Step game up in 2018 son. This is pathetic.
noBSgames
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At least she hasn’t gone nuts like my ex biting and ****. It was just getting to know one another
marmel75
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So let me get this straight...the first date is at her house, she let's you spend the night and you didn't bang her? C'mon man...this is an epic fail.
Women don't often give you another opportunity to handle your business when they make it so easy for you to begin with.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
noBSgames
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I’m not sure how this is a epic fail perhaps this site is nothing but a hit it and quit it site but it’s not like it’s going to be the last time
marmel75
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No its called escalating. I wouldnt count on there being another chance. Dont always get another chance when you get a green light to bang a chick and you don't...that's an attraction killer many times...
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marmel75
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Why would you agree to be exclusive? Having sex with a woman should not be all it takes for a man to agree to exclusivity. A wild stallion does not willingly run into a cage, slam the door shut and hand her the key.
If you agreed to this, its a major mistake, IMO
noBSgames
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
marmel75
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Dude you've been on two dates. Exclusivity should take months for a women to earn if at all. Giving yourself away this freely tells her you have very little value.