"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Long distant plate
- Thread starter noBSgames
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
noBSgames
Senior Don Juan
Could be a cost of living thing could be a few things I would have to make a judgement in person
noBSgames
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noBSgames
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noBSgames
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What a welcome change from my BPD ex at least this one did not flat out kiss me on the lips within mins of meeting me.. this one seems to be looking down the road long term which is not a problem for me.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DEEZEDBRAH
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You got get more babes brah. Da **** is long distance plate spinning? The only spinning she be doing is on some other dude's cawk and his proteins spinning in her anal and digestive tract.
Step game up in 2018 son. This is pathetic.
noBSgames
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At least she hasn’t gone nuts like my ex biting and ****. It was just getting to know one another
marmel75
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So let me get this straight...the first date is at her house, she let's you spend the night and you didn't bang her? C'mon man...this is an epic fail.
Women don't often give you another opportunity to handle your business when they make it so easy for you to begin with.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
noBSgames
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I’m not sure how this is a epic fail perhaps this site is nothing but a hit it and quit it site but it’s not like it’s going to be the last time
marmel75
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No its called escalating. I wouldnt count on there being another chance. Dont always get another chance when you get a green light to bang a chick and you don't...that's an attraction killer many times...
noBSgames
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marmel75
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Why would you agree to be exclusive? Having sex with a woman should not be all it takes for a man to agree to exclusivity. A wild stallion does not willingly run into a cage, slam the door shut and hand her the key.
If you agreed to this, its a major mistake, IMO
noBSgames
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
marmel75
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Dude you've been on two dates. Exclusivity should take months for a women to earn if at all. Giving yourself away this freely tells her you have very little value.