"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Long distant plate
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
noBSgames
Senior Don Juan
Could be a cost of living thing could be a few things I would have to make a judgement in person
noBSgames
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noBSgames
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What a welcome change from my BPD ex at least this one did not flat out kiss me on the lips within mins of meeting me.. this one seems to be looking down the road long term which is not a problem for me.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DEEZEDBRAH
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You got get more babes brah. Da **** is long distance plate spinning? The only spinning she be doing is on some other dude's cawk and his proteins spinning in her anal and digestive tract.
Step game up in 2018 son. This is pathetic.
noBSgames
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At least she hasn’t gone nuts like my ex biting and ****. It was just getting to know one another
marmel75
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So let me get this straight...the first date is at her house, she let's you spend the night and you didn't bang her? C'mon man...this is an epic fail.
Women don't often give you another opportunity to handle your business when they make it so easy for you to begin with.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
noBSgames
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I’m not sure how this is a epic fail perhaps this site is nothing but a hit it and quit it site but it’s not like it’s going to be the last time
marmel75
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No its called escalating. I wouldnt count on there being another chance. Dont always get another chance when you get a green light to bang a chick and you don't...that's an attraction killer many times...
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marmel75
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Why would you agree to be exclusive? Having sex with a woman should not be all it takes for a man to agree to exclusivity. A wild stallion does not willingly run into a cage, slam the door shut and hand her the key.
If you agreed to this, its a major mistake, IMO
noBSgames
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
marmel75
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Dude you've been on two dates. Exclusivity should take months for a women to earn if at all. Giving yourself away this freely tells her you have very little value.