"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hello, I've been dating a girl for a month and it's been great. Today, though, I got an acceptance letter from a University in the Netherlands for a 6 month exchange course starting in February. (I'm from another European country)

How should I tell her that I'm intend to enroll in the exchange course and "leave her behind"? I still want to keep dating her of course.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's been a month. Way too soon for anything serious discussions to take place. You can't date her since you won't be there physically. Waste of time until you are physically back in that area and then see what she is up to.
 
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LDR rarely if ever work, I tried it when an ex gf moved back to Israel. It's not worth it
 
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