Unfortunately, they’ll remain far better citizens than they should be. The reason why they struggle is because society and women can sense their better nature, and know they can be taken advantage of. Only very occasionally do any of them “snap.”
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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We are all running a race. Some better than others. If we pay attention on someone else's track too much then we don't be able to do our own track. What we don't get done on our own track is something we have to own. Just like we missing all of the shots we don't take even if the miss rate is 99% otherwise - if you miss that 1%, then you've missed out.
Progress means different things to different people, even if its getting a girlfriend, a nice connection with someone in a LDR, whatever works. Not everybody needs to be a player or have rotations in order to be happy with themselves and what they are getting out of life. Honestly, I don't have one envious bone in my body to others who are cleaning house in that way.
You’re really just demoralized at this point. Nobody with any sense of justice can look at the current state of affairs with anything but malice.
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Where are you on the incel-player spectrum? I'm incel myself but oddly feel rather blissful rather than miserable. I take it you are pissed?
Don’t meet the technical definition of an incel, but I am one in spirit. I guess that makes me a fakecell
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You are in a relationship?
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Nothing unfortunate if its a good old fist fight. Some of these young men though are becoming mass shooters.
Plinco
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There's a difference between empowering women and tilting in women's favor. What this is really doing is empowering and favoring the people in charge. This culture is punishing hard working people and rewarding recklessness.
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Without extraordinarily accessible porn, there would be a lot more violence.
What are some positive suggestions that you would recommend for those who feel like they are getting the short end of the stick?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Plinco
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Hard working people are getting the short end of the stick so to speak because of social engineering. Knowing this and acting accordingly is a huge opportunity to get ahead of the competition. Where ever there is turmoil there is opportunity.
I'm not celibate. I'm rarely (if ever) in a relationship
When an anti-masculinity, left-leaning media outlet (yes, "media" outlet, not news organization) like CNN senses that there could be catastrophic consequences of alienating and vilifying men, then you know the problem is already beyond helping.
But at least CNN makes their stance clear: at 3:00 the dude says that he's worried lonely men won't buy into the climate change nonsense and other left-leaning agenda.
So CNN is only concerned about men's well-being only in so far as they're worried men will increasingly reject their left-leaning narrative.
Young zoomer men have literally ZERO options for financial growth, 99% of them are destined to be broke serfs in a new Feudal System...
But at least CNN makes their stance clear: at 3:00 the dude says that he's worried lonely men won't buy into the climate change nonsense and other left-leaning agenda.
So CNN is only concerned about men's well-being only in so far as they're worried men will increasingly reject their left-leaning narrative.
Young zoomer men have literally ZERO options for financial growth, 99% of them are destined to be broke serfs in a new Feudal System...
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Chad wont commit.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Hamurabimbi
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some of my friend group, who used to do ok with women, are now very single. Something has changed.
When you say that there are a lot of guys who don't bring much to the table, what do you mean, specifically? What should they bring specifically to the table? And would you agree that there are many women who are in relationships despite not bringing much to the table other than, well, you know?
What do your friends think has caused the change in their success rate with women? What do you think?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.