"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lonely girls on Facebook "joking" about being lonely on Valentines day...
- Thread starter FM 3321
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
Why bother at all? You know she is seeking attention. I recall when myspace and facebook first hit. They were kind of neat, but now they are the most stupid thing in the world. I still have a book acct but rarely use it. I even see men posting silly $hit on their moods and walls.FM 3321 said:How would you respond to one of these posts for example? :
Wondering what all the playa's in the house think.
I see Facebook as a communication medium just like the telephone. If you play it right you can have fun and use it to your advantage. That's my view on Facebook and the once popular MySpace. So with that said, that's why I would bother.SoldMySoul said:
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
FM 3321 said:I see Facebook as a communication medium just like the telephone. If you play it right you can have fun and use it to your advantage. That's my view on Facebook and the once popular MySpace. So with that said, that's why I would bother.
The reason you mentioned is why I keep it.. communication with friends and co workers from the past. If you wish to say something to her about not having a V-day date and nobody loves her, you will probably be among many she will hear from. Knock yourself right on out.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I agree. That is online speak for "I'm an attention wh0re. Please feed me some comments so that I will build enough self esteem!" Keep "mackin" (or PUA'ing) as usually throughout Valentines Day and beyond.FM 3321 said:How would you respond to one of these posts for example? :
Wondering what all the playa's in the house think.
You CAN bag chicks on Facebook. (Duh, check the signature...lol
) But do not feed blatant cries for attention.thedude4242
Master Don Juan
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