"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lonely girls on Facebook "joking" about being lonely on Valentines day...
- Thread starter FM 3321
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
Why bother at all? You know she is seeking attention. I recall when myspace and facebook first hit. They were kind of neat, but now they are the most stupid thing in the world. I still have a book acct but rarely use it. I even see men posting silly $hit on their moods and walls.FM 3321 said:How would you respond to one of these posts for example? :
Wondering what all the playa's in the house think.
I see Facebook as a communication medium just like the telephone. If you play it right you can have fun and use it to your advantage. That's my view on Facebook and the once popular MySpace. So with that said, that's why I would bother.SoldMySoul said:
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
FM 3321 said:I see Facebook as a communication medium just like the telephone. If you play it right you can have fun and use it to your advantage. That's my view on Facebook and the once popular MySpace. So with that said, that's why I would bother.
The reason you mentioned is why I keep it.. communication with friends and co workers from the past. If you wish to say something to her about not having a V-day date and nobody loves her, you will probably be among many she will hear from. Knock yourself right on out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I agree. That is online speak for "I'm an attention wh0re. Please feed me some comments so that I will build enough self esteem!" Keep "mackin" (or PUA'ing) as usually throughout Valentines Day and beyond.FM 3321 said:How would you respond to one of these posts for example? :
Wondering what all the playa's in the house think.
You CAN bag chicks on Facebook. (Duh, check the signature...lol
) But do not feed blatant cries for attention.thedude4242
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