"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lonely girls on Facebook "joking" about being lonely on Valentines day...
- Thread starter FM 3321
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
Why bother at all? You know she is seeking attention. I recall when myspace and facebook first hit. They were kind of neat, but now they are the most stupid thing in the world. I still have a book acct but rarely use it. I even see men posting silly $hit on their moods and walls.FM 3321 said:How would you respond to one of these posts for example? :
Wondering what all the playa's in the house think.
I see Facebook as a communication medium just like the telephone. If you play it right you can have fun and use it to your advantage. That's my view on Facebook and the once popular MySpace. So with that said, that's why I would bother.SoldMySoul said:
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
FM 3321 said:I see Facebook as a communication medium just like the telephone. If you play it right you can have fun and use it to your advantage. That's my view on Facebook and the once popular MySpace. So with that said, that's why I would bother.
The reason you mentioned is why I keep it.. communication with friends and co workers from the past. If you wish to say something to her about not having a V-day date and nobody loves her, you will probably be among many she will hear from. Knock yourself right on out.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I agree. That is online speak for "I'm an attention wh0re. Please feed me some comments so that I will build enough self esteem!" Keep "mackin" (or PUA'ing) as usually throughout Valentines Day and beyond.FM 3321 said:How would you respond to one of these posts for example? :
Wondering what all the playa's in the house think.
You CAN bag chicks on Facebook. (Duh, check the signature...lol
) But do not feed blatant cries for attention.thedude4242
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