She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
They were doing it for fun, but my point is, the more people do this kind of crazy stuff, the more suspicious people will be about someone approaching them on the street.MisterMcGee said:Uh they're joke videos?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well, there is more to being a PUA than what Mystery shows the general public on his TV shows.WC2 said:Correct, these guys give PUAs a bad name.
And why the f*ck not? I've found that most PUAs belong in a toolshed with the rest of boneheads who are losers and have always been losers. They think that just because they can formulate some sh!tty routine or script and pickup a few women, they are cool.
They rarely understand why women really never liked them in the first place and attempt to put on some disguise to temporarily attract different women to them.
When it truly hits these guys hard is when they run out of material and the women see who they truly are.
I'd rather go around flipping off women than running my PUA script on all of them. Takes some bigger balls too.
They are not PUA's. On the first video there is a childish jerk , and in the second video is Jonathan Finn with his friend. Finn is a comedian.pua1989 said:hahaha these videos are great. first of all who cares if "pua" get publicized...it already has with that show on vh1....deal with it. plus these guys could probably pull pretty much any girl they want. they dont give a s h i t and neither should you
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.