"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LOL These guys give street approaches a bad name

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Uh they're joke videos?
They were doing it for fun, but my point is, the more people do this kind of crazy stuff, the more suspicious people will be about someone approaching them on the street.

Already this whole seduction and cold approaching thing has got highly publicized.
 

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Correct, these guys give PUAs a bad name.

And why the f*ck not? I've found that most PUAs belong in a toolshed with the rest of boneheads who are losers and have always been losers. They think that just because they can formulate some sh!tty routine or script and pickup a few women, they are cool.

They rarely understand why women really never liked them in the first place and attempt to put on some disguise to temporarily attract different women to them.

When it truly hits these guys hard is when they run out of material and the women see who they truly are.

I'd rather go around flipping off women than running my PUA script on all of them. Takes some bigger balls too.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WC2 said:
Correct, these guys give PUAs a bad name.

And why the f*ck not? I've found that most PUAs belong in a toolshed with the rest of boneheads who are losers and have always been losers. They think that just because they can formulate some sh!tty routine or script and pickup a few women, they are cool.

They rarely understand why women really never liked them in the first place and attempt to put on some disguise to temporarily attract different women to them.

When it truly hits these guys hard is when they run out of material and the women see who they truly are.

I'd rather go around flipping off women than running my PUA script on all of them. Takes some bigger balls too.
Well, there is more to being a PUA than what Mystery shows the general public on his TV shows.

Anyway, I didn't want to talk about PUAs. I was bringing up cold street approaching in general. You can see how bad stuff like these videos creates a sense of low value for any guy going up to someone randomly. It makes people much less responsive to conversation (direct/indirect/natural/scripted).
 

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hahaha these videos are great. first of all who cares if "pua" get publicized...it already has with that show on vh1....deal with it. plus these guys could probably pull pretty much any girl they want. they dont give a s h i t and neither should you
 

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pua1989 said:
hahaha these videos are great. first of all who cares if "pua" get publicized...it already has with that show on vh1....deal with it. plus these guys could probably pull pretty much any girl they want. they dont give a s h i t and neither should you
They are not PUA's. On the first video there is a childish jerk , and in the second video is Jonathan Finn with his friend. Finn is a comedian.
 

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I agree with the opinions here. I love the second vid too. It opens girls with a good sense of humor. The rest don't really deserve your time anyway. TBH it was more the first video that made me cringe. But anyway who cares!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That was hilarious. Lick your way to a girlfriend lol
 
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