"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL These guys give street approaches a bad name

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MisterMcGee said:
Uh they're joke videos?
They were doing it for fun, but my point is, the more people do this kind of crazy stuff, the more suspicious people will be about someone approaching them on the street.

Already this whole seduction and cold approaching thing has got highly publicized.
 

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Correct, these guys give PUAs a bad name.

And why the f*ck not? I've found that most PUAs belong in a toolshed with the rest of boneheads who are losers and have always been losers. They think that just because they can formulate some sh!tty routine or script and pickup a few women, they are cool.

They rarely understand why women really never liked them in the first place and attempt to put on some disguise to temporarily attract different women to them.

When it truly hits these guys hard is when they run out of material and the women see who they truly are.

I'd rather go around flipping off women than running my PUA script on all of them. Takes some bigger balls too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WC2 said:
Correct, these guys give PUAs a bad name.

And why the f*ck not? I've found that most PUAs belong in a toolshed with the rest of boneheads who are losers and have always been losers. They think that just because they can formulate some sh!tty routine or script and pickup a few women, they are cool.

They rarely understand why women really never liked them in the first place and attempt to put on some disguise to temporarily attract different women to them.

When it truly hits these guys hard is when they run out of material and the women see who they truly are.

I'd rather go around flipping off women than running my PUA script on all of them. Takes some bigger balls too.
Well, there is more to being a PUA than what Mystery shows the general public on his TV shows.

Anyway, I didn't want to talk about PUAs. I was bringing up cold street approaching in general. You can see how bad stuff like these videos creates a sense of low value for any guy going up to someone randomly. It makes people much less responsive to conversation (direct/indirect/natural/scripted).
 

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hahaha these videos are great. first of all who cares if "pua" get publicized...it already has with that show on vh1....deal with it. plus these guys could probably pull pretty much any girl they want. they dont give a s h i t and neither should you
 

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pua1989 said:
hahaha these videos are great. first of all who cares if "pua" get publicized...it already has with that show on vh1....deal with it. plus these guys could probably pull pretty much any girl they want. they dont give a s h i t and neither should you
They are not PUA's. On the first video there is a childish jerk , and in the second video is Jonathan Finn with his friend. Finn is a comedian.
 

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I agree with the opinions here. I love the second vid too. It opens girls with a good sense of humor. The rest don't really deserve your time anyway. TBH it was more the first video that made me cringe. But anyway who cares!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That was hilarious. Lick your way to a girlfriend lol
 
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