"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LOL Im way too over confident....??

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Well Ive been talkin to this girl for sometime now and last night she told me that I am way too ****y and over confident.... I was like thats funny I always thought girls liked ****y, funny and confident guys and she said that she dosnt... lol whats are your opinions on this... most other girls think Im really funny and that im not really that ****y.

edit... crap posted in wrong forum.. i graduated last year..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To me over confident means arrogant. Just be confident and hit her with some C&F.
 
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it probally had something to do with something you said
she probally didnt agree with it which resulted in her telling you you were too ****y
 
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You probably shouldn't have said that "I thought girls liked ****y, funny & confident guys." That would make the stituation worse.

You should have played it off although not changed your level of confidence, because if you do she'll think she has control.
 
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No such thing as over-confidence.

****iness/Arrogance in order to hide insecurities? Now man, that does exist. I was a big offender too, try to tone it down a little.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alright...Ill try not to be as ****y as I was before but I dont think I was ****y at all... All my friends laughed at me when I told them this cause they dont think Im ****y at all... they think im the total opposite.
 
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