Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LOL Im way too over confident....??

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Well Ive been talkin to this girl for sometime now and last night she told me that I am way too ****y and over confident.... I was like thats funny I always thought girls liked ****y, funny and confident guys and she said that she dosnt... lol whats are your opinions on this... most other girls think Im really funny and that im not really that ****y.

edit... crap posted in wrong forum.. i graduated last year..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To me over confident means arrogant. Just be confident and hit her with some C&F.
 
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it probally had something to do with something you said
she probally didnt agree with it which resulted in her telling you you were too ****y
 
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You probably shouldn't have said that "I thought girls liked ****y, funny & confident guys." That would make the stituation worse.

You should have played it off although not changed your level of confidence, because if you do she'll think she has control.
 
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No such thing as over-confidence.

****iness/Arrogance in order to hide insecurities? Now man, that does exist. I was a big offender too, try to tone it down a little.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright...Ill try not to be as ****y as I was before but I dont think I was ****y at all... All my friends laughed at me when I told them this cause they dont think Im ****y at all... they think im the total opposite.
 
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