"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LOL Im way too over confident....??

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Well Ive been talkin to this girl for sometime now and last night she told me that I am way too ****y and over confident.... I was like thats funny I always thought girls liked ****y, funny and confident guys and she said that she dosnt... lol whats are your opinions on this... most other girls think Im really funny and that im not really that ****y.

edit... crap posted in wrong forum.. i graduated last year..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To me over confident means arrogant. Just be confident and hit her with some C&F.
 
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it probally had something to do with something you said
she probally didnt agree with it which resulted in her telling you you were too ****y
 
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You probably shouldn't have said that "I thought girls liked ****y, funny & confident guys." That would make the stituation worse.

You should have played it off although not changed your level of confidence, because if you do she'll think she has control.
 
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No such thing as over-confidence.

****iness/Arrogance in order to hide insecurities? Now man, that does exist. I was a big offender too, try to tone it down a little.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright...Ill try not to be as ****y as I was before but I dont think I was ****y at all... All my friends laughed at me when I told them this cause they dont think Im ****y at all... they think im the total opposite.
 
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