"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Logistics of ONS

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If you meet a girl at a bar or club... are there times where maybe a girl doesn't want to go to your place / her place and would prefer neutral ground like a hotel.

i.e Your places are too far away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In the past, I found that hotel rooms worked best when you ALREADY HAD a room. Maybe you are visiting an area on vacation or business, and you are already checked in. Or you already got a room nearby so you could drink/party and not have to drive (in the pre-uber world).

I'm not sure about meeting someone cold in the field and offering to GET a hotel room right then and there for a ONS. It can definitely happen. But for some women, the idea that you are going whip out your credit card to spend $100 to $300 right now just to have sex with her can be off-putting.
 
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You have to set the logistics up beforehand. I've had multiple one night stands mostly because a friend of mine is an event planner that often throws parties. I get a hotel room walking distance to the event and stock it with alcohol before hand. Then the conversation inevitably comes up during the night from an interested girl what my plans are for getting home. Once they find out I'm close by it is a done deal.
 
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Logistics is the key to getting same night/first date lays, depending upon your method used to get laid.

You must select a home within walking distance of some bars that you think will either....
1. function as quality nightlife spots for easy same night lays
2. function as a place where you can host first date from swipe apps

If you do not have these venues within walking distance of your home, you will be fighting an uphill battle to get same night lays. You might even have to alter your whole process of getting to sex.
 
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bob2007 said:
If you meet a girl at a bar or club... are there times where maybe a girl doesn't want to go to your place / her place and would prefer neutral ground like a hotel.

i.e Your places are too far away.
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"I live at blablabla, how about you?
"Oh, just near blabla(1 bla closer)"
"Ok, let's go to your place then"

Job done.

If she's interested, logistics are not a problem. Worst case scenario you bang her the following day.
 

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