"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Logistics?? Help!!

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I live with my family. They're the "conservative" type, my father works at home most of the time and my mother is a housewife and their schedules are pretty much random because of that. There is in no way I would bring a girl home.

Girls can be uncomfortable bring me home because of a multitude of issues.

I have a SUV, but I want to avoid the car if possible.

Hotels trigger higher than normal resistance with girls.

Friends houses are iffy.

I'm not going to move out just to solve a logistic's issue, because other than this issue, living at my house is reallllllly nice.

So guy's in highschool, I know you really have to deal this kind of issue a lot, so what's your advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blabla said:
I live with my family. They're the "conservative" type, my father works at home most of the time and my mother is a housewife and their schedules are pretty much random because of that. There is in no way I would bring a girl home.

Girls can be uncomfortable bring me home because of a multitude of issues.

I have a SUV, but I want to avoid the car if possible.

Hotels trigger higher than normal resistance with girls.

Friends houses are iffy.

I'm not going to move out just to solve a logistic's issue, because other than this issue, living at my house is reallllllly nice.

So guy's in highschool, I know you really have to deal this kind of issue a lot, so what's your advice?
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I'd go with the car, it's probably the best option you have.

Have you tried going to her house instead?
 
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you have an SUV for god's sake. Seriously. Come on.
 
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It's a small japanese SUV (and it's old, so don't think I'm rich or something :p) . And I want to enjoy myself better, not do it in a cramped car.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Japanese SUV...ok you could have just told us it wasn't an SUV, seriously...Japanese SUVs are as big as sedans.

Her house.
 
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