"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Logistics?? Help!!

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I live with my family. They're the "conservative" type, my father works at home most of the time and my mother is a housewife and their schedules are pretty much random because of that. There is in no way I would bring a girl home.

Girls can be uncomfortable bring me home because of a multitude of issues.

I have a SUV, but I want to avoid the car if possible.

Hotels trigger higher than normal resistance with girls.

Friends houses are iffy.

I'm not going to move out just to solve a logistic's issue, because other than this issue, living at my house is reallllllly nice.

So guy's in highschool, I know you really have to deal this kind of issue a lot, so what's your advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blabla said:
I live with my family. They're the "conservative" type, my father works at home most of the time and my mother is a housewife and their schedules are pretty much random because of that. There is in no way I would bring a girl home.

Girls can be uncomfortable bring me home because of a multitude of issues.

I have a SUV, but I want to avoid the car if possible.

Hotels trigger higher than normal resistance with girls.

Friends houses are iffy.

I'm not going to move out just to solve a logistic's issue, because other than this issue, living at my house is reallllllly nice.

So guy's in highschool, I know you really have to deal this kind of issue a lot, so what's your advice?
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I'd go with the car, it's probably the best option you have.

Have you tried going to her house instead?
 
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you have an SUV for god's sake. Seriously. Come on.
 
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It's a small japanese SUV (and it's old, so don't think I'm rich or something :p) . And I want to enjoy myself better, not do it in a cramped car.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Japanese SUV...ok you could have just told us it wasn't an SUV, seriously...Japanese SUVs are as big as sedans.

Her house.
 
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