"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Logistics?? Help!!

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I live with my family. They're the "conservative" type, my father works at home most of the time and my mother is a housewife and their schedules are pretty much random because of that. There is in no way I would bring a girl home.

Girls can be uncomfortable bring me home because of a multitude of issues.

I have a SUV, but I want to avoid the car if possible.

Hotels trigger higher than normal resistance with girls.

Friends houses are iffy.

I'm not going to move out just to solve a logistic's issue, because other than this issue, living at my house is reallllllly nice.

So guy's in highschool, I know you really have to deal this kind of issue a lot, so what's your advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lust

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blabla said:
I live with my family. They're the "conservative" type, my father works at home most of the time and my mother is a housewife and their schedules are pretty much random because of that. There is in no way I would bring a girl home.

Girls can be uncomfortable bring me home because of a multitude of issues.

I have a SUV, but I want to avoid the car if possible.

Hotels trigger higher than normal resistance with girls.

Friends houses are iffy.

I'm not going to move out just to solve a logistic's issue, because other than this issue, living at my house is reallllllly nice.

So guy's in highschool, I know you really have to deal this kind of issue a lot, so what's your advice?
I'd go with the car, it's probably the best option you have.

Have you tried going to her house instead?
 

The Shocker

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you have an SUV for god's sake. Seriously. Come on.
 

blabla

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It's a small japanese SUV (and it's old, so don't think I'm rich or something :p) . And I want to enjoy myself better, not do it in a cramped car.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Shocker

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Japanese SUV...ok you could have just told us it wasn't an SUV, seriously...Japanese SUVs are as big as sedans.

Her house.
 
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