"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright, so things are stalled out with Megan. She's in DC for the week, coming back on Friday. To me that says date this weekend. My house probably won't work, and I'm not ready for it. Hers might but should I invite myself over?

I'm more likely to go for another public place. I really try not to do movies, the escalation is obvious and easy, but cliche. Where else can we make out in peace?

I'm thinking I might try to do a mall/movie combination deal. Any advice from the sosuave crew?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I like the mall/movie combo. You can walk around and talk to her for a little while then get her in the movie and escalate the **** outta her. Sometimes the simplest ideas are the best and if she likes you it wont matter where you take her.
 
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I feel like I need to ask this in regards to HB Kaitlin on my journal. I wanna take her someplace warm where we can wrestle and maybe escalate into sex.

My problem is that neither of our places are particularly quiet, it's cold outside, and I'm generally not sure where to go. If push comes to shove I can always try to polite to her parents and then hopefully her basement is private enough. Otherwise I'm open to suggestions.
 
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BPH said:
I feel like I need to ask this in regards to HB Kaitlin on my journal. I wanna take her someplace warm where we can wrestle and maybe escalate into sex.

My problem is that neither of our places are particularly quiet, it's cold outside, and I'm generally not sure where to go. If push comes to shove I can always try to polite to her parents and then hopefully her basement is private enough. Otherwise I'm open to suggestions.
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Well, honestly, my favorite date would be enjoying 'flowers' (why do I keep up this charade? There are drugs in my life...) in my car with her, playing music, 'wrestling' (lol). Then going and playing in Toys R Us. I've done this a few times with my girlfriend-at-the-time. Nothing like post-sex silliness plus high silliness plus little kid toys.

I don't know about that for a first date. Or even a third. When am I allowed to pull this one off? It's fun...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LearningSlowly said:
Well, honestly, my favorite date would be enjoying 'flowers' (why do I keep up this charade? There are drugs in my life...) in my car with her, playing music, 'wrestling' (lol). Then going and playing in Toys R Us. I've done this a few times with my girlfriend-at-the-time. Nothing like post-sex silliness plus high silliness plus little kid toys.

I don't know about that for a first date. Or even a third. When am I allowed to pull this one off? It's fun...
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...ok...lol
 
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