DC did have the most prolific PUAs and seducers in the early 2000s. Now I see it was because of the super competitive dating market.
When dating environments become extremely competitive, there's more interest in seduction. Toronto grew a big PUA scene. Toronto is known for SJW/feminist women even worse than DC.
PUA has faded out a bit as now a lot of men are looking to hack the Tinder/Bumble/Hinge algorithms. All 3 of those swipe apps are big sausage fests.
DC women are just not fun. Its like all the overly SJW girls flock to DC to work for the govt or some "progressive" non profit.
Correct. Women who work in those fields are not fun at all. You focus on the women who transplant to DC as adults. Careerist, feminist women in DC are also likely to start conversations around what you do for work.
Private sector orporate drones aren't that much better. Dallas and Houston are examples of cities where a lot of women move there after college for some corporate job. Both Dallas and Houston have a lot of big corporate HQs in the region and draw in some careerist women. While the Dallas/Houston women are not as bad as DC SJWs/feminists, they can be annoying. In Dallas, they can be avoided somewhat if you avoid Bumble and avoid the women who work at the biggest companies. The bigger problem in Dallas is the pretentiousness of the not overweight, BA/BS degree + having white women.
Its very difficult to snag a girl that grew up in the area.
It is good you mentioned women who grow up in Maryland or Northern Virginia. Many have parents work in the government, are federal government contractors, or a "progressive" non-profit employees. Imagine a 25-35 year old woman whose mother was a 1970s/1980s feminist and career woman working on the DC scene. Those women exist in the DC area.
The reason that it is difficult to get women who grew up in that area is because they often tend to find themselves in relationships more frequently from their social circles. That's what happens when you are geographically fixed in the same area for the first 25-40 years of your life. That happens in most cities, even transplant heavy places like Las Vegas, Phoenix, or Dallas.
maybe the problem is not with the geographical location , but with the density of hardcore career women , and high density of guys who are pussified
Most Western men are more pussified now. Testosterone levels are lower.
We're seeing more masculinized women and more pussified men.
DC is among the worst for this. Most major cities will be worse than the mid-sized areas (150-600k). A lot of the bigger cities are interchangeable. DC, Austin, and the whole San Francisco Bay Area are among the worst for SJW/feminist women. It's not a coincidence that feminist dating app Bumble put its HQ in Austin. San Diego, Los Angeles, and Denver have bad ratios too. The Bay Area has both San Francisco and the Aspie tech guys around San Jose.
Difficult in a city like DC? Interesting
I'm at the Jersey Shore and it doesn't seem easy.
Your geography stinks. You don't have the requisite 150k population needed to date effectively after age 25. Most of the single women near you are either in Philadelphia or New York City. Central/South Jersey isn't very conducive to dating, unless it is Seaside Heights or Point Pleasant in the summer at night.
North Jersey is a little bit better, within 30 miles or so of New York City. The population is large enough and you don't necessarily need to go into New York City to date. Hoboken and Weehawken have their own scenes. If you like Hispanic/Black women, there's always Newark/Jersey City. I hear that even Morristown has a singles scene now, which is surprising because that general area is quite suburban.
