"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last Man Standing, if you are reading my post I want to say that I am finally getting what your saying. I need more knowledge though before its too late.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Indeed I am! But, sadly. I'm starting to fall in love with my ho' :nervous:
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Indeed I am! But, sadly. I'm starting to fall in love with my ho' :nervous:
And this is the beginning of your end!!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Then, shall the light shine upon my clouded mind before it gets too dark to see!!! For it is I that looks for a woman!
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Then, shall the light shine upon my clouded mind before it gets too dark to see!!! For it is I that looks for a woman!
I didn't think he'd take the bait. Guess I was wrong. Nice one! :up:
 
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Then, shall the light shine upon my clouded mind before it gets too dark to see!!! For it is I that looks for a woman!
Then to save yourself you shall seek her feminine nature, as naturally designed!!!!!
 

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This is gonna take sometime reading and understanding but, none the less I will repost my new found wisdom.
 
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This is gonna take sometime reading and understanding but, none the less I will repost my new found wisdom.
It is simple!! Men and women were created to be with one another and NOT separate - can we create offspring otherwise??? Would you/we exist otherwise?? When you have the maximum of "two" in the creative/upbringing process then you must have one that dominates!!! This is elementary!! There is NOT a majority between "two" parties - so to create cohesion only one can dominate!!! Elementary!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I GET IT I GET IT. This is some heavy sh!t man. Everything is soo much more clear to me. That might be the only single peice of information I'll ever need!!!
 

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Just read his damn article, IAFYB. It's not that hard to understand.

Btw, how horish is your ho? It's probably not good to fall in love with her.
 

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just asking, what does "bump" mean and why do people post it?
 

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Obsidian said:
Just read his damn article, IAFYB. It's not that hard to understand.

Btw, how horish is your ho? It's probably not good to fall in love with her.
Well she has been around the block before me.... But, she acts how a woman should. She cooks me food, she follows my lead, takes care of me when I'm sick, drunk or hurt, gives me back rubs and ect. She is submissive to me of how a woman should be explained in "The Natural Order Of Things." But, the fact she has had multiple sex partners bugs me a little. (They weren't random guys or ONS's.) To me her IL is high and we have a good relationship. I am still young and have plenty of more girls to meet and qualify for myself. She is not my first gf but not the last. I just need to look at her actions and dig deep into myself and figure out what it is I really want.
 
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Iafyb, yes, you must know what you want, but more importantly is to know what she wants - is her submissiveness an "act" because she wants something from you, or is it genuine affection? This is very important to know because many guys here are in LTRs and think their girl has genuine affection for them but then suddenly she gets cold and leaves, and the guy is dumbfounded why she grew distant. The reason is that there is always another guy in the picture - and then the guy feels betrayed, and rightfully so!! Know the intentions of the person who you are with!! Don't ask her - just observe her intently!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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Last Man Standing said:
Iafyb, yes, you must know what you want, but more importantly is to know what she wants - is her submissiveness an "act" because she wants something from you, or is it genuine affection? This is very important to know because many guys here are in LTRs and think their girl has genuine affection for them but then suddenly she gets cold and leaves, and the guy is dumbfounded why she grew distant. The reason is that there is always another guy in the picture - and then the guy feels betrayed, and rightfully so!! Know the intentions of the person who you are with!! Don't ask her - just observe her intently!!
Very good point and advice. It seems genuine but, I will always protect my heart if something feels astray.
 

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Man, I was hanging out with some hors last night, and all along, I realized how lucky I was to have been freed from the Hor Matrix. These girls were all fairly good-looking, but I had minimal desire for them because of how completely horish they were. And I sure as hell didn't go out of my way to impress them.

It's good to be able to recognize low-quality girls for what they are.
 

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LMS...you remind me of the character in Tucker Max's book, "Slingblade".

I'm trying to figure out where you stand. You are quick to label women hors and whatnot, but I have never really heard what defines a women as a hor. What makes a hor? A non-virgin? A chick who has had sex with under 5 men? Under 10? What?
 
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ValleyDJing said:
LMS...you remind me of the character in Tucker Max's book, "Slingblade".

I'm trying to figure out where you stand. You are quick to label women hors and whatnot, but I have never really heard what defines a women as a hor. What makes a hor? A non-virgin? A chick who has had sex with under 5 men? Under 10? What?

I have a few pages that I will make a future post on the hor definition and hor matrix - but suffice it to say that a virgin cannot be a hor and a married woman cannot be called a hor for having sexual relations with her husband!

DevanE said:
LMS...I have been trying to free myself from the hor Matrix as well but considering my dashing looks and charm, it seems that I am getting "sucked" back into it repeatedly, consistently and more aggressively than ever. My circuits keep being overridden and it looks as if the hor matrix gets stronger every time I try to decrypt myself from it and terminate the sequence. What do I do because I might just give up and accept the Matrix for what it is and be lost in the abyss of perpetual blindness. Save me LMS !!!!! SAAAAAAAAAAAAVEE MEEEEEE!!!!!! :woo:

DevaE, I cannot save you from hors - only you can save yourself!. I know you jest because as you already know - men have control over their own actions - if nothing else!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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