I.A.F.Y.B.
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Last Man Standing, if you are reading my post I want to say that I am finally getting what your saying. I need more knowledge though before its too late.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Lms, Free Me From The Matrix.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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While 99% of the fools on here are seeking a smelly polluted diseased stank hole, you are seeking a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What you are seeking is "The Natural Order Of things!!!"http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=50480
What you are seeking is "The Natural Order Of things!!!"http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=50480
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Indeed I am! But, sadly. I'm starting to fall in love with my ho' :nervous:
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And this is the beginning of your end!!!!I.A.F.Y.B. said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Then, shall the light shine upon my clouded mind before it gets too dark to see!!! For it is I that looks for a woman!
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Then to save yourself you shall seek her feminine nature, as naturally designed!!!!!I.A.F.Y.B. said:
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This is gonna take sometime reading and understanding but, none the less I will repost my new found wisdom.
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It is simple!! Men and women were created to be with one another and NOT separate - can we create offspring otherwise??? Would you/we exist otherwise?? When you have the maximum of "two" in the creative/upbringing process then you must have one that dominates!!! This is elementary!! There is NOT a majority between "two" parties - so to create cohesion only one can dominate!!! Elementary!!I.A.F.Y.B. said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I GET IT I GET IT. This is some heavy sh!t man. Everything is soo much more clear to me. That might be the only single peice of information I'll ever need!!!
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Well she has been around the block before me.... But, she acts how a woman should. She cooks me food, she follows my lead, takes care of me when I'm sick, drunk or hurt, gives me back rubs and ect. She is submissive to me of how a woman should be explained in "The Natural Order Of Things." But, the fact she has had multiple sex partners bugs me a little. (They weren't random guys or ONS's.) To me her IL is high and we have a good relationship. I am still young and have plenty of more girls to meet and qualify for myself. She is not my first gf but not the last. I just need to look at her actions and dig deep into myself and figure out what it is I really want.Obsidian said:
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Iafyb, yes, you must know what you want, but more importantly is to know what she wants - is her submissiveness an "act" because she wants something from you, or is it genuine affection? This is very important to know because many guys here are in LTRs and think their girl has genuine affection for them but then suddenly she gets cold and leaves, and the guy is dumbfounded why she grew distant. The reason is that there is always another guy in the picture - and then the guy feels betrayed, and rightfully so!! Know the intentions of the person who you are with!! Don't ask her - just observe her intently!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Very good point and advice. It seems genuine but, I will always protect my heart if something feels astray.Last Man Standing said:
Man, I was hanging out with some hors last night, and all along, I realized how lucky I was to have been freed from the Hor Matrix. These girls were all fairly good-looking, but I had minimal desire for them because of how completely horish they were. And I sure as hell didn't go out of my way to impress them.
It's good to be able to recognize low-quality girls for what they are.
It's good to be able to recognize low-quality girls for what they are.
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LMS...you remind me of the character in Tucker Max's book, "Slingblade".
I'm trying to figure out where you stand. You are quick to label women hors and whatnot, but I have never really heard what defines a women as a hor. What makes a hor? A non-virgin? A chick who has had sex with under 5 men? Under 10? What?
I'm trying to figure out where you stand. You are quick to label women hors and whatnot, but I have never really heard what defines a women as a hor. What makes a hor? A non-virgin? A chick who has had sex with under 5 men? Under 10? What?
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ValleyDJing said:
I have a few pages that I will make a future post on the hor definition and hor matrix - but suffice it to say that a virgin cannot be a hor and a married woman cannot be called a hor for having sexual relations with her husband!
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DevaE, I cannot save you from hors - only you can save yourself!. I know you jest because as you already know - men have control over their own actions - if nothing else!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.