"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LJBF'ed

oranges

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I have just been LJBF'ed, (i said "no prob") I'm going out tonight with her and a group of friends

Any ideas on how to act tonight?

Maybe be an A$$ and game her female friends? (jealousy)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flabbergasped?

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don't be an ass, just game her female friends. Chances are, you're not getting her, so why even bother? Work on the other pieces of @ss there. If she gets jealous and grovels for your attention, act accordingly.

Just be courteous to her, but don't treat her as if you were still pursuing.
 

Ace_McGregor

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Use the power of indifference on her. Don't be an @ss - that won't help. Just present the aire that you are not interested anymore, and approach other women.
 

Microphone Fiend

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^^^i agree

Indifference is worse than hate or love...Its whatever.

Hopefully as you act you shall become in this case. I doubt she is gonna care if you act indifferent cuz she already LJBF'd you. So move on ASAP
 

Cod3r

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You were LJBF'd son, that means she could care less what u do..


-Cod3r
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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