"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LJBF'ed

oranges

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I have just been LJBF'ed, (i said "no prob") I'm going out tonight with her and a group of friends

Any ideas on how to act tonight?

Maybe be an A$$ and game her female friends? (jealousy)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flabbergasped?

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don't be an ass, just game her female friends. Chances are, you're not getting her, so why even bother? Work on the other pieces of @ss there. If she gets jealous and grovels for your attention, act accordingly.

Just be courteous to her, but don't treat her as if you were still pursuing.
 

Ace_McGregor

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Use the power of indifference on her. Don't be an @ss - that won't help. Just present the aire that you are not interested anymore, and approach other women.
 

Microphone Fiend

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^^^i agree

Indifference is worse than hate or love...Its whatever.

Hopefully as you act you shall become in this case. I doubt she is gonna care if you act indifferent cuz she already LJBF'd you. So move on ASAP
 

Cod3r

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You were LJBF'd son, that means she could care less what u do..


-Cod3r
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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