"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LJBF'ed

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I have just been LJBF'ed, (i said "no prob") I'm going out tonight with her and a group of friends

Any ideas on how to act tonight?

Maybe be an A$$ and game her female friends? (jealousy)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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don't be an ass, just game her female friends. Chances are, you're not getting her, so why even bother? Work on the other pieces of @ss there. If she gets jealous and grovels for your attention, act accordingly.

Just be courteous to her, but don't treat her as if you were still pursuing.
 
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Use the power of indifference on her. Don't be an @ss - that won't help. Just present the aire that you are not interested anymore, and approach other women.
 
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^^^i agree

Indifference is worse than hate or love...Its whatever.

Hopefully as you act you shall become in this case. I doubt she is gonna care if you act indifferent cuz she already LJBF'd you. So move on ASAP
 
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You were LJBF'd son, that means she could care less what u do..


-Cod3r
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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