Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LJBFed a woman.

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Why is it that when you LJBF a woman, and make it very clear that you do, why is it that their interest level increases dramatically?

I've had to do this numerous times (in the case of one woman, I had to tell her at least THREE times); their interest level towards me reached a point where I didn't want much to do with them. (A case of reverse-AFC?)

At no point was I ever involved with them, either....

What really irks me is that the minute they find out I'm involved with someone else, all hell breaks loose...To a point where a restraining order may be needed.

What's going on here?



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It should aslo be mentioned that after I LJBFed a couple women, I went no-contact on them...and it seems that this is only pulling them closer. In the last day I've gotten 4 missed calls (3 from one , 1 from another)

Seriously, WTF?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man, I wish I had your problem. Having to run away from p*ssy. What a beautiful dilemma.
 

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They want to reel you in so that, once you cave in, they can LJBF you :)

Goes with the idea that women "must have" the power in the sexual market and all that (as far as I understood it from the DJ bible that is).
 

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RMM said:
They want to reel you in so that, once you cave in, they can LJBF you :)

Goes with the idea that women "must have" the power in the sexual market and all that (as far as I understood it from the DJ bible that is).
I hope you're joking....they want to reel you in so that they can f*ck you, in this situation.

I think I'm going to start LJBF'ing some girls :) haha. I've seen this brought up a few times now, I think it's time to give it a serious try.
 

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
You basically shatter a girl's ego when you do this. Read The Art of Seduction, the second part of the book talks about stirring anxiety and discontent or something. Basically you punch a hole in her that only you can fill in...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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