"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LJBFed a woman.

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Why is it that when you LJBF a woman, and make it very clear that you do, why is it that their interest level increases dramatically?

I've had to do this numerous times (in the case of one woman, I had to tell her at least THREE times); their interest level towards me reached a point where I didn't want much to do with them. (A case of reverse-AFC?)

At no point was I ever involved with them, either....

What really irks me is that the minute they find out I'm involved with someone else, all hell breaks loose...To a point where a restraining order may be needed.

What's going on here?



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It should aslo be mentioned that after I LJBFed a couple women, I went no-contact on them...and it seems that this is only pulling them closer. In the last day I've gotten 4 missed calls (3 from one , 1 from another)

Seriously, WTF?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man, I wish I had your problem. Having to run away from p*ssy. What a beautiful dilemma.
 

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They want to reel you in so that, once you cave in, they can LJBF you :)

Goes with the idea that women "must have" the power in the sexual market and all that (as far as I understood it from the DJ bible that is).
 

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RMM said:
They want to reel you in so that, once you cave in, they can LJBF you :)

Goes with the idea that women "must have" the power in the sexual market and all that (as far as I understood it from the DJ bible that is).
I hope you're joking....they want to reel you in so that they can f*ck you, in this situation.

I think I'm going to start LJBF'ing some girls :) haha. I've seen this brought up a few times now, I think it's time to give it a serious try.
 

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
You basically shatter a girl's ego when you do this. Read The Art of Seduction, the second part of the book talks about stirring anxiety and discontent or something. Basically you punch a hole in her that only you can fill in...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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