"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LJBFed a woman.

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Why is it that when you LJBF a woman, and make it very clear that you do, why is it that their interest level increases dramatically?

I've had to do this numerous times (in the case of one woman, I had to tell her at least THREE times); their interest level towards me reached a point where I didn't want much to do with them. (A case of reverse-AFC?)

At no point was I ever involved with them, either....

What really irks me is that the minute they find out I'm involved with someone else, all hell breaks loose...To a point where a restraining order may be needed.

What's going on here?



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It should aslo be mentioned that after I LJBFed a couple women, I went no-contact on them...and it seems that this is only pulling them closer. In the last day I've gotten 4 missed calls (3 from one , 1 from another)

Seriously, WTF?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Man, I wish I had your problem. Having to run away from p*ssy. What a beautiful dilemma.
 

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They want to reel you in so that, once you cave in, they can LJBF you :)

Goes with the idea that women "must have" the power in the sexual market and all that (as far as I understood it from the DJ bible that is).
 

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RMM said:
They want to reel you in so that, once you cave in, they can LJBF you :)

Goes with the idea that women "must have" the power in the sexual market and all that (as far as I understood it from the DJ bible that is).
I hope you're joking....they want to reel you in so that they can f*ck you, in this situation.

I think I'm going to start LJBF'ing some girls :) haha. I've seen this brought up a few times now, I think it's time to give it a serious try.
 

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
You basically shatter a girl's ego when you do this. Read The Art of Seduction, the second part of the book talks about stirring anxiety and discontent or something. Basically you punch a hole in her that only you can fill in...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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