"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey everyone. I've been reading these boards for the past two months, and just started posting last week. I have to say that these boards have changed the view I previously had on life and on woman. 2 months ago I was an AFC, and I didn't really know anything when it came to a girls interest level. Anyway to say the least I could tell she was a little bit interested in me by her body language and she was constantly touching my arm and chest. Anyway being an AFC, I didn't know what any of this meant, and I thought she was just being friendly. (Yeah I was that ignorant.)

A couple weeks later it finally dawned on me that maybe I should ask her out. Well when I did it was too late, she gave me the "Let's just be friends" line. I was extremely frustrated, and I needed advice. That's when I stumbled upon this awesome website. I read all about how women should never be the main focus of life. (they aren't for me anymore) and I also read about interest level.

I also read that if a girl LJBF's you, than the best advice is to cut off all contact from her. After reading about that tip I stopped talking to her for 2 months. In class I could tell she was getting a bit frustrated that I never talked to her anymore. She continuosly tried to get my attention, anything from flipping her hair as she walked by me to coming up and rubbing against me in the hallway.

Finally she got so frustrated that she came up and talked to me. She said that she missed talking to me and that we should hang out sometime. Than I gave her the "Sorry I'm going to be real busy for the next few weeks." This only raised her interest level more and she's been calling me two to three times a week.

I just wanted everyone to know that this site has helped me a ton, and if you're just coming to this site, study the Bible. After accepting whatever is written in there you will notice a HUGE difference.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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Congrats man! Keep it cool.

Welcome to the boards.

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
Your situation is not going to work. Just tellin' ya. LJBF is very permanent.
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Oh come, on Walk this Way, I think he has a chance. If her interest level really is rising as he describes, I think she is into him a little but now.

Good luck, cyjay201.
 
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Originally posted by Walk this Way
Your situation is not going to work. Just tellin' ya. LJBF is very permanent.
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That may be true, I'm well aware of that as well. As far as I'm concerned I don't give a rats ass if it works out or not, I just thought like sharing my story to others on the board, and that this is real proof of the theory that you should just drop all contact from a girl that wants to "just be friends."

If it works, yay. If it doesn't I don't care.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
Your situation is not going to work. Just tellin' ya. LJBF is very permanent.
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not so true, last summer i was bestfriends with this girl, and by the end of the summer, (we were friends for like 4 months) we were going at it.

but mabye because i saw her so often and the sexual tension was extremely high.

or mabye it was my extreme don juan skills....
 
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Um, my current gf and I were best friends for a year or two.

We are going at it and it's the greatest relationship I ever had.

LJBF is usually permanent yes, but it can be undone. It's HARD work so before taking up the quest to step out of the friends zone, kindly make sure she is WORTH it.

Newer DJs, please do not attempt this at home.


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