"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey everyone. I've been reading these boards for the past two months, and just started posting last week. I have to say that these boards have changed the view I previously had on life and on woman. 2 months ago I was an AFC, and I didn't really know anything when it came to a girls interest level. Anyway to say the least I could tell she was a little bit interested in me by her body language and she was constantly touching my arm and chest. Anyway being an AFC, I didn't know what any of this meant, and I thought she was just being friendly. (Yeah I was that ignorant.)

A couple weeks later it finally dawned on me that maybe I should ask her out. Well when I did it was too late, she gave me the "Let's just be friends" line. I was extremely frustrated, and I needed advice. That's when I stumbled upon this awesome website. I read all about how women should never be the main focus of life. (they aren't for me anymore) and I also read about interest level.

I also read that if a girl LJBF's you, than the best advice is to cut off all contact from her. After reading about that tip I stopped talking to her for 2 months. In class I could tell she was getting a bit frustrated that I never talked to her anymore. She continuosly tried to get my attention, anything from flipping her hair as she walked by me to coming up and rubbing against me in the hallway.

Finally she got so frustrated that she came up and talked to me. She said that she missed talking to me and that we should hang out sometime. Than I gave her the "Sorry I'm going to be real busy for the next few weeks." This only raised her interest level more and she's been calling me two to three times a week.

I just wanted everyone to know that this site has helped me a ton, and if you're just coming to this site, study the Bible. After accepting whatever is written in there you will notice a HUGE difference.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Congrats man! Keep it cool.

Welcome to the boards.

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
Your situation is not going to work. Just tellin' ya. LJBF is very permanent.
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Oh come, on Walk this Way, I think he has a chance. If her interest level really is rising as he describes, I think she is into him a little but now.

Good luck, cyjay201.
 
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Originally posted by Walk this Way
Your situation is not going to work. Just tellin' ya. LJBF is very permanent.
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That may be true, I'm well aware of that as well. As far as I'm concerned I don't give a rats ass if it works out or not, I just thought like sharing my story to others on the board, and that this is real proof of the theory that you should just drop all contact from a girl that wants to "just be friends."

If it works, yay. If it doesn't I don't care.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
Your situation is not going to work. Just tellin' ya. LJBF is very permanent.
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not so true, last summer i was bestfriends with this girl, and by the end of the summer, (we were friends for like 4 months) we were going at it.

but mabye because i saw her so often and the sexual tension was extremely high.

or mabye it was my extreme don juan skills....
 
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Um, my current gf and I were best friends for a year or two.

We are going at it and it's the greatest relationship I ever had.

LJBF is usually permanent yes, but it can be undone. It's HARD work so before taking up the quest to step out of the friends zone, kindly make sure she is WORTH it.

Newer DJs, please do not attempt this at home.


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