LJBF where did I go wrong?

[Konada]

A girl at work caught my eye and since I'm leaving the job in 3 weeks I decided to ask her out.

Kino, teasing and she was responding receptively until I asked for the date, she gave me the number and said

'I don't know if I should tell you this'

'We can be friends'

Where the fvck did I go wrong?

 

[dude99]

A girl at work caught my eye and since I'm leaving the job in 3 weeks I decided to ask her out.

Kino, teasing and she was responding receptively until I asked for the date, she gave me the number and said

'I don't know if I should tell you this'

'We can be friends'

Where the fvck did I go wrong?

Nowhere. She just had low interest.

 

[cola]

A girl at work caught my eye and since I'm leaving the job in 3 weeks I decided to ask her out.

Kino, teasing and she was responding receptively until I asked for the date, she gave me the number and said

'I don't know if I should tell you this'

'We can be friends'

Where the fvck did I go wrong?

Invite her out anyway. If she frames it as a "ljbf hangout" disregard and proceed like its a date. Use Kino and escalate like you would any other date. Its hard to show alpha male qualities at work because you arent the alpha, the boss is. So when you get her out let the Don Juan you shine through. If after that nothing then she just doesnt dig you.

 

[RangerMIke]

If she is willing to go out with you then do not worry about what the fvck she is saying.

Gee how many times does this have to be said... NEVER pay attention to what women say.... only what they do.

Why do women say stuff like this... heck I don't know. But I do know much of it has to do with the fact that there are so many fvcking clueless dudes out there. I'm seeing a woman now who has this freaking nut case stalking her.... She went out with him for only a few weeks... and he's already acting like they've been married for years. Many times women will say LJBFs right off the bat because they want guys to slow the fvck down.

 

[playa99]

Just proceed as usual, she gave you her number.

She will more than likely use the 'we are friends' line again. Ignore it and escalate. If you get rejected, then she really does want to be friends & has low sexual interest in you.