"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AlmostThere!

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I never lived with a female before, but I know it's probably a great thing if you love her. I'm curious to know how does a relationship come to that point? What's the motivation behind it and how should/does it be decided?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJDanny

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For me it just sort of happened. We were spending almost every night together at that point at one of our places anyways, I was buying a new house, her lease was ending too. So yeah she just moved in with me, turns out it was WAY to early but C'est la vie.
 
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Sandow

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Don't do it!!

After your done doing it, and you guys part ways hating each other and thinking that was the worst idea ever...

Don't say I didn't warn you.
 
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rocksoff

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Living with a chick is a drag man.....After youre done fvcking her youll just want her to dissapear, They make the bathroom gross as fvck, I lived with a girl that I "loved" for about a year ,and I can pretty much promise youll want her gone after a short period of time.....just live with some homies and invite girls over to get down,its Alot funner
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thecurtainfalls

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Sandow's right, I'm a survivor of a live in relationship with my (now) ex. I would never ever do that again with a girl I wasn't married to, and because of this experience I do not want to get married for a much longer while than I would have originally thought.
 
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